Borrow Some Elements

Women love bad guys. Take a look at some TV roles in the US TV series. There are some fictional characters that women are attracted and it is in your benefit to borrow elements from their behavior. Being a quasi-jerk, a genuinely good guy with jerk tendencies is the key for most of the women, play average to have more possibilities. But there are other mixes also you can try. In general, experiment, explore, try different approaches if you fail many times. Simple as that.

Jack Bauer from 24 is attractive because he gets the job done. Dr. House is arrogant, cynical as far as it goes, he treats patients as puzzles not as people. He does not care what people think; it’s because he knows how good he is, he is self-confident. His self-esteem is up to the sky, he takes risks ad he is absurd as well as he takes tough decisions.

Sawyer from Lost is a con artist, the bad guy, a lone wolf, doesn’t need anyone. He is sarcastic, selfish and repulsive, despised by anyone. His appearance and sex-appeal of course help him a lot, it would be stupid to say he is attractive only by being a prick; if he was ugly and fat, he would be considered as attractive. He grows and matures though to become more caring and compassionate.

Dr. Troy from Nip/Tuck is a sex addict. It is the type of guy who would take 5 Viagras to spend the night with more than 1 women and skip the surgery next day. Irresponsible, he carries a playful arrogance and he doesn’t lose his words even in the presence of the prettiest woman, he is cool and he objectifies every woman. Now this is not exactly the advice to be happy with life, but it’s a way of attracting women.

Don Draper of Mad Men is a womanizer who does not accept the general perception of the inferiority and objectification of the female, prevalent of the era depicted in the series, the 60’s.